THE 7 F'S | F 02 OF 07
Family
Marriage first, then the kids. The people who matter most get the best of you.
THE FAMILY PILLAR
What Family is about
Your wife, your kids, your household. The people who matter most and get the best of you, not what is left over.
It starts with your marriage: a healthy marriage, the questions you ask each other and communication that keeps you close. Then your children: the most important lessons for raising kids who succeed, and teaching them your core values.
Identity comes before performance. Not authoritarian, and not love they have to earn. You call your kids up to who they are called to be and help them grow the skills to step into it.
The order
- Marriage first
- Then the children
- Identity before performance
- Family core values
SIGNS YOU NEED IT
Is Family the F to fix first?
- Your family gets what is left over after work.
- You and your spouse talk about logistics more than you talk about each other.
- Your kids feel loved when they perform, not for who they are.
- Your family has never written down its core values.
THE FAMILY LADDER
Start small. Go deeper when you are ready.
Every F has a guide to start with and a next step after it. Pick the one that fits where you are today.
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Legacy: The Family Field Guide
A printable 18 page guide and workbook. Marriage first, then the children: questions to ask each other, fair fight rules, identity before performance, calling your kids up, family core values, family rhythms and a 30 day Family sprint.
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The Legacy Family Kit
A 21 page printable kit: 52 questions for the two of you, a monthly state of the union, a repair script, a family core values workshop, a frameable values poster, child identity profiles, call them up scripts and a family rhythms planner.
Get the Family KitCourse and coaching
Next on the Family ladder: the full Family course, then coaching with me.
A NOTE FROM BRANDON
I never want to be that tired dad again, and I do not want that for you.
WHAT I HAVE DONE
Married 20 years. Dad of five boys, and we teach them the 7 F's at home.
YOUR NEXT STEP
Start Family today with Legacy.
$27 to start. Instant download.
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