Marriage first. Then the children.
Legacy is my field guide to building a home that outlasts you: a strong marriage at the center, kids who know who they are, and family values everyone can say from memory.
Starting at $27. 17 page printable PDF guide and workbook.
The problem
You can win at work and lose at home.
Busy seasons push the people we love most to the end of the calendar. They get what is left over.
Kids will forget a lot of what you say. They will not forget how you treat each other, or whether you made time for them.
The fix is not a bigger vacation once a year. It is putting the marriage first and building small rhythms that do the heavy lifting.
What you get
Build a home on purpose.
17 printable pages. Made for two pens.
Marriage first
Why the marriage is the foundation the kids stand on, and a check up you score together.
Better questions
Feedback and connection questions, plus fair fight rules that protect the relationship.
Identity before performance
Not authoritarian, not performance based love. Call your kids up to who they are.
Values and rhythms
Write your family core values, set daily to yearly rhythms and run a 30 day sprint.
How it works
See it. Connect. Align. Lock it.
One week at a time for 30 days.
See it
Score your marriage check up together and take an honest look at home.
Connect
Ask two questions from the guide each week and plan one date out of the house.
Align
Agree on your fair fight rules and start an identity map for each child.
Lock it
Write your family core values and set your rhythms on repeat.
Who it is for
For parents who want to lead at home like they lead at work.
- Founders and leaders whose family gets what is left over.
- Married couples who want to be a team again.
- Parents who want kids who thrive after they leave home.
- Single parents who want a clear plan for their home.
Not for you if your home is in crisis. Please start with a licensed counselor or your pastor.
A note from Brandon
Your first ministry lives under your roof.
I'm a tech founder, a husband of 20 years and a dad of five boys. I learned the hard way that you can win at work and lose at home.
Legacy is how I keep my marriage first and call my boys up to who they are. Small habits, big legacy.
Brandon
Legacy: The Family Field Guide
One time. Instant download.
- 17 page printable PDF guide and workbook
- Marriage first and a marriage check up
- Questions to ask each other
- Talk and fight fair rules
- Identity before performance and call them up
- Family core values worksheet
- Family rhythms, 30 day sprint and commitment page
Want me to walk through it with you or your team? Coaching is available. Ask for a free quote.
FAQ
How do I get the guide?
Right after checkout you land on a download page, and the PDF link comes to your email too.
Do we have to do it together?
It works best with two pens, but one spouse can start. If you are a single parent, the marriage pages still apply to how you lead yourself and your home.
How old should the kids be?
The parenting pages work for any age. Older kids can help write the family values.
Is this counseling?
No. Legacy shares my personal practice on marriage and parenting for encouragement and education. It is not marriage or family counseling. If your home is in crisis, please talk to a licensed counselor or your pastor. If anyone is not safe, contact local emergency services.
What is the next step after Legacy?
The Legacy Family Kit, starting at $47. Question decks, a core values workshop, identity tools and a 90 day plan.
Build a home that outlasts you.
Start with one check up and one honest conversation this week.
Legacy shares my personal practice on marriage and parenting for encouragement and education. It is not marriage or family counseling. If your home is in crisis, please talk to a licensed counselor or your pastor. If anyone is not safe, contact local emergency services.